Obituaries & Condolences

YOUNG, James…

James “Jim” Young passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 8, 2022, at University Hospital, London in his 80th year.

He is survived by his wife, Patricia (Stiller), stepsons, Craig MacLennan (Jacquie) of Kitchener ON and Chris MacLennan (Oxana) of Marathon ON, and his grandsons Aaron MacLennan (Michael) and Dwayne Hertich all of Kitchener. Jim will be dearly missed by in-laws, Betty Stiller of Kitchener, Brian Stiller (Nicole) of Elliot Lake, Gord Stiller (Laurie) of Chatsworth, Lisa Morton (Ron) of Kitchener, Janice Stiller of Paisley ON, Cindy Charlebois (Tim) of Waterloo and Kismet Unger (Walter) of Kitchener. He is also survived by niece Heather Spencer-Main and many other nieces, nephews, and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents Milton Young and May (Devonport) of Montreal Quebec, and sisters Betty Markey (Des), Alice Spencer (Art), Doris McCabe (John), also father-in-law Gordon Stiller and mother-in-law Fran Martin (Amsey) and nephews Eric Spencer and Garrett Spencer and niece Tammi Rector.

Born in Montreal, he was a truly kind and gentle man with a profound sense of humour. Jim was an avid ten pin bowler and was also a member of Doon and Rockway Golf club for thirty plus years. He retired from Sutherland Schultz after 25+ years. He enjoyed country & western music and movies and was an enthusiastic fan of baseball.

Jim’s Celebration of Life will be held in the spring.

Cremation has taken place, as an expression of sympathy donations in memory of Jim may be made to The Heart and Stroke Foundation

Cremation London & Middlesex entrusted with arrangements 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

DAFOE, Carolyn…

Peacefully with her family by her side on Friday, January 7, 2022, at Dearness Home, London, Carolyn Dafoe passed away in her 72nd year. Predeceased by her loving partner Jack Ferguson. Loving mother of Tamara Dafoe (Ian). Cherished grandmother to Shannon Dafoe (Alex) and Alyssa Duke. Great Grandmother to Aubrey and Sophie Vinet. Beloved sister to Janice Callow (Ron), Peter Stapylton (Pat), and Paul Stapylton (Laurie). Dear aunt to her nieces and nephews. Carolyn loved her role in the flower department at Metro for many years. In addition to spending time with her family, she enjoyed travelling, spoiling her dog Teddy, and creating many beautiful crafts. Her memory will carry on in our hearts. Cremation has taken place and the family is planning a private celebration of life, as per Carolyn’s wishes. A special thanks to the staff at Dearness Home for their wonderful care of Carolyn. Arrangements entrusted with Cremation London & Middlesex, 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

Passed in peace Saturday January 1^st, 2022.

Loving father of daughters Cathleen (Kevin), Lisa (John) and son Robert (Janice).

Proud grandfather of Jessica Noble, Christopher Noble, Brenden Noble, Sarah Forrer, Andrew Forrer, William Forrer and Matthew Pasternak.

He is also survived by his former wife, Elizabeth Pasternak.

Predeceaded in death by his parents Peter and Mary (nee Syrnyk); sisters Leona (Louis) Gwodz, Beth (Mike) Melnyk, Verna (Frank) Norquay and Nell (Walter) Pacholok; brothers Joe (Pauline) and Victor (Vicky).

Further survived by nieces, nephews and other caring relatives.

Stan was also blessed with cherished friends.  He will be greatly missed by Carlos Flores, Rocco Brigante, Hans Wendt, Peter Pastor and many more.

He had a very successful career in real estate management that lasted for several decades.

Stan spent the majority of his life in Toronto. He loved the city and was a strong patron of the arts, especially musical theatre and opera.  He was also quite the movie buff.

He was equally competitive on the tennis court as he was talented in the kitchen.  A truly fantastic tennis player and an exceptional cook.

He loved to travel with his friends. New York City was always top of his list!

His family and friends supported him as dementia took hold.  A special thank you to his personal support worker Ali Sarvghad-Razavi who gave him his final wish of staying in his home as close to the end as possible.  Thank you, Ali, for your kindness and tireless dedication to his care.

Stanley passed with dignity, respect and pride.  A great long life lived.

We will celebrate Stan’s life this summer in Toronto.  Details to follow for friends and family.

Please consider a donation to celebrate Stan’s memory to organizations that he loved.

Tennis Canada – www.tenniscanada.com

Canadian Opera Company – www.coc.ca

“Dad, your guiding hand will be on my shoulder forever.”

BERUBE, Marco…

The loving family of Marco Berube are heartbroken and announce his unexpected passing on December 25, 2021 at 54 years of age.

Marco was a most beloved and revered husband to Elizabeth Berube, caring Father to Sydney & Marcel, doting Grandfather to his three grandchildren Tayah, Jace and Nova and adored by his furry four-legged babies Bella and Baillie.

Born in Beardmore, Ontario on July 27, 1967 to loving parents Yvette and Marcel Berube, Marco is survived by his siblings Jocelyne (Pierre) Turcotte, Michelle (Robert) Bois, France Madge, Martin (Julie) Berube, nieces & nephews Natalie, Lynn, Suzanne, Jason, Nancy, Justin, Jennifer, and Joshua.

As a young athlete Marco excelled on many local Thunder Bay sports teams and was most passionate when he was playing hockey. After graduating from Churchill High School a number of American college hockey scholarships were extended with Marco choosing to remain close to his immediate family. Marco played in the Manitoba Junior Hockey League with the St. James Canadians and the Saskatchewan Junior Hockey League for the for the Weyburn Redwings becoming a league All-Star and returning home to play for the  Thunder Bay Hornets  an experience that resulted in many life-long friendships.

Dedicated to continuing his personal physical work ethics after his hockey career, Marco established Peak Roofing in Thunder Bay and developed a respected reputation amongst the regions contractor community that was served well by his commitment to high quality service and indicative of his resilient personality. Recognizing an opportunity Marco & his family relocated to London Ontario and he was extremely proud of his son’s accomplishments in being drafted into the OHL, playing in the QMJHL and playing hockey professionally in Europe. Not one to rest on his own achievements, Marco’s presence was most respected at North-Western Ontario government buildings as a Building Technician, in London’s hockey rinks as an HVAC Technician and most recently with the Ontario Realty Corporation as a Facility Technician in many Southern Ontario locations. The outdoors have always been a precious place for Marco where he was most at ease, particularly the time spent camping with his family, friends and acquaintances and reminiscing with Liz around the campfire. Our friendships and treasured memories of Marco’s life will endure and always hold a special place in our hearts.

Cremation has taken place. Cremation London & Middlesex entrusted with arrangements, 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

DEWAR, Tammie…

At St. Joseph’s Hospice, London Ontario on Friday, December 17th, 2021. Tammie Anndolyn Dewar of Prescott, Ontario; age 61 years. Beloved wife of James Dewar of Maxville Ontario. Loving mother of Brandie Corrigan (Trevor Arrand), Tanner Corrigan (Debbie Bossyt). Stepchildren, Jamie Dewar (Jon Colby), Shamus Dewar (Tawnya Leingang), Tessa Dewar. Survived by brother, Sheldon Laffoley of Brockville and sister,  Laurie Levere of Digby Nova-Scotia. Nieces and nephews; Curtis Levere, Taycie Levere, Katelyn Levere and Brittany Levere of Nova-Scotia, Devany and Dawson Laffoley of Brockville.  Grandchildren; Parker Salz, Alexsa Kerr, Claire and Annelise Corrigan, Vincent and Lillian Dewar, Evangeline Love, Zaiden and Macie Colby all of London.  And grandchildren; Chance and Savara Williamson, Julian and Scarlet Courneyea and Zackrey Wiskin, all of Kingston Ontario. A celebration of life will be held at a later date.  As expressions of sympathy Memorial donations to the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated by the family. Cremation London & Middlesex entrusted with arrangements 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

VAN DELINDER, Jim…

July 18, 1935 – December 8, 2021

James Philip Van Delinder passed away at Victoria Hospital, London on Wednesday, December 8, 2021 at the age of 86.
Jim was predeceased by his loving wife of 64 years, Joyce (nee Sakalo) (August 24, 2021). He will be lovingly remembered and sadly missed by his daughters Lori White and husband Greg, Sandra Field and the late Janice Vodden and late husband Paul. He will also be fondly remembered by his grandchildren and their families; Angie Spalding, Michelle Lewington, Ryan Field, Kevin Field, Emily Greenwood, Michael Fisher and his eleven great-grandchildren. Jim was born in Windsor, ON to Philip & Irene Van Delinder and was one of three children.

Jim lived with his wife Joyce and together they raised their 3 daughters in Georgetown, ON prior to moving to Guelph, ON. He began his career as a “Milkman” and as good luck would have it, he landed his first Sales Rep position with Heinz a few years later. His good nature and ease with people quickly earned him promotion after promotion …. Jim retired in his early sixties as Vice President of a large multinational food company with many fond memories of a rewarding career.

A special “Thank You” to the extraordinary staff at Victoria Hospital, London for their kindness and compassion during his three weeks in their care. Sincere appreciation to all staff at The Village of Arbour Trails, Guelph for going “over & above” and treating Jim with respect, dignity and excellent care as his health rapidly declined and his care needs increased.

Cremation has taken place. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Parkinson Society Southwestern Ontario, 117-4500 Blakie Road, London, ON N6L 1G5 or the MS Society Southwestern Ontario, 20-1100 Dearness Drive, London, ON N6E 1N9 would be greatly appreciated. A Celebration of Life is planned for a later date. Arrangements entrusted with Cremation London & Middlesex, 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

SMITH, Harley….

Peacefully at Parkwood Hospital on Tuesday, December 14, 2021, Harley Smith of London in his 91st year. Proud father of Cheryl Smith, Harley Richard Smith (Tracy McLean) and Charles Smith (Lisa). Cherished Pops of Matthew, Sarah and Carrie. Dear brother of Janette Baldwin. Missed by his wife Mary of over 60 years. The family would like to thank the staff on the Complex Care Floor for the love, care, and compassion. Cremation has taken place. As an expression of sympathy, donations may be made to the London Humane Society. Cremation London & Middlesex entrusted with arrangements 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

BIELER, Paulette Katheryne……

July 11, 1958 (Kitchener, ON) – Dec 13, 2021 (London, ON)

Peacefully at home and surrounded by love, after a courageous and lengthy battle with cancer, Paulette Katheryne Bieler, passed away on December 13^th, 2021. She was the beloved mother of Julie Dickison, Erin Skinner (Ian), Aimie Dickison, Jeffrey Dickison (Bonnie). Paulette had 5 beautiful grandchildren, Samuel, Wesley, Lukas, Beatrice and Cameron.  She was also sister to David Bieler (Orly) and Joanne Bieler (Barry).  Predeceased by her parents, Paul (2010) and Jeanette (2020). She was a giver by nature and always had a heart for those in need. She saw the best in everyone and made the most of all situations.  She had a passion for people especially caring for the elderly where she spent 20+ years working in long-term care. 

Some of her happiest times were spent in her garden or visiting with friends but most of all making memories with her 5 grandchildren. Throughout her 10-year battle with cancer, mom was always so appreciative of the care she received at London Health Sciences Centre and St. Joe’s Breast Care Program, including all the doctors, nurses, and paramedics that cared for her along the way.  In keeping with her wishes, no service will be held. A private family memorial will be held at a later time.  Donations can be made to the London Regional Cancer Program, c/o London Health Sciences Foundation, 747 Baseline Road E, London ON, N6C 2R6. Cremation London & Middlesex entrusted with arrangements 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

HICKSON, Tim….

Passed away unexpectedly at his residence in his 67th year on Saturday, December 11, 2021. Cherished father of Robert “BJ” Hickson (Cyndie) and Samantha Rodriguez (William). Adored Papa of Daniela, Olivia, Bre, Desiree, Jasmine, Keenan, and great grandpapa of Nailah. Dearly missed by his siblings Steve Hickson (Penny), Chris Westman, Tom Hickson and their families. Best friend of Nelson Burdett, Lindsay Scott and Rick McDougall. Cremation has taken place. A celebration of life to be held at a later date. As an expression of sympathy, donations may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation. Cremation London & Middlesex entrusted with arrangements 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com

FAUX, Mary…

Mary Ruth Faux, 83, passed away peacefully on December 8, 2021, at Highview Residences in London, Ontario of complications of Alzheimer’s and stroke. She was surrounded by close friends.

Mary was born March of 1938, in Hamilton, Ontario to Ernie and Patricia Robbins, and after her mother’s passing was raised by her stepmother Rose Robbins. She lived an extremely full life, residing at various times in Hanover, Strathroy, and London, Ontario; Concepción, Chile; New York City; Alexandria, Virginia; Cambridge and Arlington, Massachusetts; Whitefield, Maine; Chalatenango, El Salvador; and Portsmouth, New Hampshire. She was a fighter for social justice, an Irish harp player, and a poet.

Mary earned a Master’s degree in Social Planning from Goddard College in Vermont in 1971; in the early 1970s she was Director of the Family Planning Office in Augusta, Maine; she raised two sons, as well as goats and sheep on a family farm in central Maine; ran several restaurants, notably the Wife of Bath, in Bath, Maine; she was a professional organizer for the Ladies Garment Workers Union and The Amalgamated Clothing and Textile Workers Union in New York; in her 50s she did two terms in the Peace Corps in Chalatenango, El Salvador where she organized women into a textile co-op and assisted the mayor in reconstructing the town, following the war. She played harp in the Angel Band, in Portsmouth, New Hampshire, and often performed for terminal patients in the hospital and in Hospice. Later in life she returned to Canada to be close to her two sisters, Pat and Sue, and her brother Chuck. She is survived by her two sons: Tom Faux (Robin) and George Faux (Melody); four grandchildren: Shelby (William), Malcolm, Celia, and Stella; her sister Sue Jaunzemis (Richard) and brother Chuck Robbins; her cousin Gary Depew; her nieces Margaret Walker, Nancy Walker, Patsy Walker, and Sarah Jaunzemis; her step-nephews and step-niece Shawn, Shane, and Michele; her close end of life companions Carol Burns and Jim Coulter; Dr. Jennie Wells, a very special mentor for many years; and her former husband Jeff Faux.

She was predeceased by her older sister Pat Walker, and her brother-in-law Jack Walker. She is no longer an old lady, no longer trapped in a pained body, no longer has Alzheimer’s. Let her spirit soar!!

Cremation has taken place. To honor Mary’s memory, the family requests that donations be made to Maine Family Planning, P.O. Box 587, Augusta, ME 04332-0587 or https://mainefamilyplanning.org. Arrangements entrusted with Cremation London & Middlesex, 519-858-2467. Online condolences shared at www.cremationlondon.com